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Posted: Nov. 30 2011, 10:53 |
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well I was 8, and it didn't surprise me. I just never feel I fit in totally to what I'm doing, I'm 'half there' in a way!
I agree with Sir M about adaptation though as I know growing older has changed me a little and at times I can speak up...also having children arouses all kinds of survival and protective instincts I didn't know I had.
I used to worry that I didn't like social gatherings as when you are young it seems you are a total misfit if you don't party ( teenage years were very hard...no one ever seemed to say it was Ok to be that way, I always felt I was in the wrong )...but I never understood parties...still don't...god this sounds like I am a right old misery!!! but I'm not, I just like to listen to people and talk to them without pretence, and really understand what makes them tick.
I've got a real mixture of introverted and extroverted friends...one in particular is so 'up front' and loud it puts many people off, but deep down she is the most insecure person I know...and she over compensates for it a bit. She is also lovely and kind, really thoughtful, warmhearted and loves life and is therefore very interesting. I did a college course with her for a year, last year, and she blossomed in that time, it did her so much good, but I used to notice how people 'assumed' too much about her because of her unconventional views and even her bold colourful way of dressing. So what you see in people is not always what they really are. books,covers etc
Interesting thread btw
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